Great Sex is This Year’s “Must-Have” Gift
by CarlaTara · 9 Comments
The R’n’B singer Rhianna recently quipped that all she wants this Christmas is “some great food and great sex.” What a wish list! Creating beautiful, tasty dishes, and the time and space for connected love-making, are two of my favorites of the Sixty-Four Tantric Arts.
We know about the healing properties of fresh, home-made food. But what about fresh, home-made, loving sex?
One of the best ways to live longer while feeling and looking younger has a lot to do with giving and receiving love and having good sex. As you’ll see, it also helps stave off colds, which is good news come the holiday season.
I saw Dr. Daniel G. Aman present astounding facts about the brain at the World Anti-Aging Conference last year. Dr. Aman is a brain specialist who wrote an amazing book called Magnificent Mind at Any Age, about the brain’s effect on how we feel, our outlook on life, our longevity and our ability to be happy and healthy.
In his presentation to about 2,000 doctors interested in age management and preventive intervention in maintaining a healthy body healthy into old age, Dr. Aman mentioned a Cleveland Study based on the beneficial results to men who were feeling loved. 10,000 men who participated in this study were asked the question: “Does your wife show you love?” The ones who answered Yes were statistically proven to live significantly longer than those who answered No. Follow for more . . . » »
The Importance of Touch in Building Sexual Charge and Love
by CarlaTara · 14 Comments
In this busy age when we’re always pressed for time, people have forgotten what it’s like to touch each other just for the pleasure of it. Even if that opportunity arises, the tendency is to get caught up over ejaculatory orgasms. Admittedly, ejaculatory orgasm produces intense pleasure, but unless it is built up slowly with conscious touch it is more like a sneeze in the groin, a release of built up tension, than a deeply satisfying experience that “makes love grow” (love making). Follow for more . . . » »
The Art of Ecstatic Love and Deep Connection
by CarlaTara · 2 Comments
Tantra is the art and science of living consciously and joyously. It teaches to fully accept and expand sexual pleasure as a gift, and to celebrate it to go deeper into love.
Most people’s perception of Tantra is limited to controlling sex so you can have it for hours and hours in strange positions. Tantra is much more than that. It includes 64 arts that support you to be the most sensitive and accomplished lover of life and of another person. It includes the art of understanding the energy flow, of communicating deeply from your feelings, the art of romance, of setting up a room that will encourage you to create a mood that takes you higher into your fullest potential of vitality and passion, and more… Follow for more . . . » »
Effortless Orgasms Are Possible!
I recently started working with a great looking woman who first came in my door so stressed that she could not sit still without constantly re-arranging her body. That first day, her eyes were speedily moving around in hypervigilance. She could not finish one sentence in the rush to get to the next.
What she said came from a rehearsed circular thinking in her head. She did not allow herself time to feel. She told me she hated herself and especially her body. She grew up with a self-righteous alcoholic father and a Catholic mother who did NOT allow herself or her children to feel feelings, especially those of pleasure.
She complained that she had a dark secret: she was 49 years old and she had never had an orgasm! All her friends were telling her of their great lovemaking, ending in earthshaking orgasms. . . Whether they were telling her the truth or not, she believed them and guessed there was something wrong with her.
Talking to Jane did not seem the best approach, because her rigid belief that there was something wrong with her would just filter out my words. I had to try something more direct. Follow for more . . . » »
FREE Preview of My New Workshop!
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I’m so excited to share the news about my new workshop for Baby Boomers called Booming Relationships.
Last fall I asked you, my readers and visitors, for feedback on what is missing in your lives, what you most want to improve, how I could help you the most. And you responded!
The end result is Booming Relationships, a weekend workshop dedicated to guiding Baby Boomers to rekindle passion, joy, love and excitement for life and each other.
If you are a baby boomer couple, I invite you to join me for a FREE 2 hour taster workshop!
Thursday October 15th 2009
7-9pm
22 East 30th Street, New York, NY 10016
To register, e-mail both your names & any questions you have, to
carla@carlatara.com with ‘Booming Relationships Taster – Sign me up!’ in the subject line
and we’ll respond promptly.
