The Tantric Secret – Simpler Than You Think

by CarlaTara · 1 Comment 

The Tantric secret to obtaining the highest orgasm and deepening love is very natural and very simple: pay attention to your lover.

Men are usually faster than women getting to places where they are tempted to ejaculate so I will concentrate on guiding men. If you are a woman who get sexually turned on faster than your man, this is for you, too.

For men, your woman’s breathing is the most essential guide that will tell you where your woman is in her process of getting turned. She will hopefully be using the Ocean Breath, a fluid natural breath. When her breathing becomes deep and she makes sounds of pleasure, you know she’s there with you. Until then, you need to match her breathing and feel where she is.

The breath is the most important telltale sign to guide you to her state of arousal. Follow for more . . . » »

The Tantric Big ‘O’ – Tantric Orgasm for Men

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As an intimacy expert I receive many requests from men asking me why it is important for them to control their sexual energy so that they do not ejaculate too soon. Following up on my article on Male Multiple Body Orgasms, I am happy to remind you that orgasm and ejaculation are two different events.

There are powerful Tantric techniques that will help you have several mind-blowing orgasms without ejaculating – they are called multiple body orgasms. Every time you control your instinct to ejaculate, your will move toward a higher, more powerful orgasm. You can have as many orgasms as you want during the time you have set aside for this most pleasurable and enlightening experience with your lover.

A good time to decide to ejaculate is when you know your lover is fully satisfied. Do not worry: she will give you unmistakable signs. Then you can decide to have the last body orgasm with a conscious ejaculation.

This kind of tantric orgasm -I call it the Tantric Big O – will definitely be your highest and your ejaculation will be stronger and longer.

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The Art of Orally Pleasing a Woman

by CarlaTara · 7 Comments 

I recently received a phone call from a young man who had come to see me about a month ago to learn how to pleasure women. He was frustrated trying to give his girlfriend an orgasm this way with no success, and he thought that maybe she just did not like oral loving.

“How can it be possible?” he asked me in disbelief during the session.

There could be several reasons.  Follow for more . . . » »

Facing Major Life Transitions with Tantra

by CarlaTara · 2 Comments 

Life is change, and we are always changing, but there are specific times in life when so much changes that it throws us for a loop, because life is no longer as we knew it before. Menopause and andropause are both examples of those changes, and they can start as early as the ages of 38 through 55. Follow for more . . . » »

Which is Best – The Vaginal or Clitoral Orgasm?

by CarlaTara · 29 Comments 

In a Many Curryville blog Steve Czamoray commented: “For over a hundred years,  sexual stamina researchers, feminists and pop-culture have been enmeshed in an ongoing debate as to which is superior: the vaginal or clitoral orgasm. Which is the Best Female Orgasm?”  Follow for more . . . » »

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