The Tantric Secret – Simpler Than You Think
The Tantric secret to obtaining the highest orgasm and deepening love is very natural and very simple: pay attention to your lover.
Men are usually faster than women getting to places where they are tempted to ejaculate so I will concentrate on guiding men. If you are a woman who get sexually turned on faster than your man, this is for you, too.
For men, your woman’s breathing is the most essential guide that will tell you where your woman is in her process of getting turned. She will hopefully be using the Ocean Breath, a fluid natural breath. When her breathing becomes deep and she makes sounds of pleasure, you know she’s there with you. Until then, you need to match her breathing and feel where she is.
The breath is the most important telltale sign to guide you to her state of arousal. Follow for more . . . » »
The Tantric Big ‘O’ – Tantric Orgasm for Men
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As an intimacy expert I receive many requests from men asking me why it is important for them to control their sexual energy so that they do not ejaculate too soon. Following up on my article on Male Multiple Body Orgasms, I am happy to remind you that orgasm and ejaculation are two different events.
There are powerful Tantric techniques that will help you have several mind-blowing orgasms without ejaculating – they are called multiple body orgasms. Every time you control your instinct to ejaculate, your will move toward a higher, more powerful orgasm. You can have as many orgasms as you want during the time you have set aside for this most pleasurable and enlightening experience with your lover.
A good time to decide to ejaculate is when you know your lover is fully satisfied. Do not worry: she will give you unmistakable signs. Then you can decide to have the last body orgasm with a conscious ejaculation.
This kind of tantric orgasm -I call it the Tantric Big O – will definitely be your highest and your ejaculation will be stronger and longer.
Tantra and Sexual Dysfunctions
There is a certain embarrassment or even shame that is connected with sexual dysfunction. No one would be ashamed to have, for example, a liver or heart dysfunction. One would be sad but not embarrassed and one would immediately ask a professional for help.
The most common sexual dysfunctions that men experience are: loss of desire, erectile dysfunctions, premature ejaculation and impotence. Some women experience: inhibited sexual desire, lack of orgasm, insufficient lubrification and painful intercourse. According to the Journal of the American Medical Association, in 2005 more than 105 million Americans reported struggling with chronic sexual dysfunctions and many of them were not aware that there is help available. Diabetes can be one of the causes of sexual dysfunctions. Also some prescription medications for depression can have a negative effect on sexual desire.
There are many causes: some of them are related to hormone production, to blocks to the flow of energy, to shallow anxious breathing and unhealthy diet, just to mention a few. Follow for more . . . » »
Tantra Basics: Kissing Guidelines
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Here are the basic steps of a Tantric Kiss:
First, relax all your facial muscles. A tense face makes tense lips – you want your lips and mouth to be open and welcoming. So, close your eyes for a moment, breathe deeply into your belly, and let go.
Now, kiss your partner’s upper lip (Yang). Use both your lips to embrace their upper lip. Let your lips be open and full. Suck gently.
Now, kiss your partner’s lower lip (Yin). Fully enjoy all the sensations. Explore the rich softness of your lover’s lip.
Now, kiss your partner’s lips together. The full embrace. Feel how their excitement is building. Do their lips quiver? Are they parted to invite you in?
A kiss is like the first movement of a lovemaking symphony. Follow for more . . . » »
Tantra Basics: Touching Guidelines
by CarlaTara · 4 Comments
A simple touch can express genuine affection.
A variety of touches can express passion, devotion, and love.
The giver and the receiver both have their roles to play in this dance of love.
When they take turns giving and receiving, they each get a chance to lead the dance. Follow for more . . . » »
