Breaking Habits That Destroy Love
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As you probably know, much of our difficulty in keeping a relationship fresh comes from the fact that the left side of our brains, the part that is concerned with our survival, loves to create habits. This part of the brain is responsible for doing things for you that produce efficiency and comfort. Obviously it is not efficient to have to figure out over and over again which muscles to use, and in what sequence, to do simple things like walking, opening a door, making sounds, and even more complicated actions like flying a plane.
By creating habits, the left side of our brain lets us make a little ‘program’ that takes us through the most efficient set of actions without wasting time thinking through each one. We are really grateful for this ability, which ultimately makes our lives easier.
However, the problem is that this same part of our brain wants to take over and make the decisions about what’s best for you all the time, without consulting with the heart. The left side simply takes over the job of the right side of our brain without being in touch with the wisdom that is available to the right brain, and without considering factors like love, joy, and excitement.
If we don’t pay attention, the habit-creating actions of the left side, which can be so useful to us, can start to strangle us with efficiency and routine in the most important parts of our lives where we DON’T want to be on autopilot. Follow for more . . . » »
Woman’s Primary Sexual Organ, the Yoni
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The yoni seems to still hold some mystery both for men and for women. Often women come to me to help them understand their sexual organ so they can ask their men for what turns them on.
The yoni is a network of connected parts of a woman’s body: the external part which includes the vulva with the inner and outer lips (also called labia) and the clitoris, and the internal part of the vagina which holds several powerful orgasmic spots such as the G spot, the A spot and the X spot.
Strangely enough, even in this age of overflow of information, some women do not know that the clitoris, which can be thought of as a small lingam, can not ejaculate or urinate. These women were stunned to find out that the clitoris’ only function is to give them pleasure. Follow for more . . . » »
Female Ejaculation
Does a woman ejaculate? The answer is a definite yes. With proper stimulation of the G-spot or “Goddess-spot”, women can ejaculate a fluid from ducts located around the urethra. The G-spot is located in the front wall of the vagina under the pubic bone. This is a spongy area two inches or more inside the yoni (vagina) — depending on the size of the yoni and the location of the clitoris. It is actually the “South Pole” of the clitoris. Follow for more . . . » »
Achieving Multiple Orgasms with Tantra
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Knowledge of Tantra seems to be reaching more people than ever. More men and women then even just a month ago are expressing a new interest in Tantra because they have heard from a friend, or read in a magazine or blog, that with the help of Tantra you can live up to your full potential as a lover. If you are one of them, you understand that it is smart to use the greatest energy we have available – your sexual energy – to create more pleasure, more love, more health, more abundance and unearth an even a greater sense of humor. Haven’t you noticed that when you are happy and fulfilled, you are more inclined to smile and to laugh at jokes (even when they aren’t that good)?
This is definitely good news, and what makes me feel even better is that women are finally freeing themselves of the negative myths about Tantra that have circulated over the years from unenlightened sources. One of these deleterious myths is that Tantra is equivalent to porn, and that men want you to get involved in it because they want a porn experience with you. Nothing can be further from the truth!
I have already written several articles on the multiple benefits of Tantra that you can find on my website. What I want to concentrate on here is the importance of women discovering that they can have multiple orgasms before they decide or allow to squeeze out their fluids. Follow for more . . . » »
Thanksgiving – What are you giving thanks for?
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This thanksgiving holiday, I’m inviting you to give thanks for your ability to get out of your head into your body!
Getting out of one’s head is essential to reach really satisfactory sex and deeper connection. As you know, the thoughts you have, even if they are positive, cannot be sustained for long. Advertising agencies and the creators of commercials know that the attention span of most people is about 16 to 30 seconds. That’s not nearly enough time to get you really turned-on when you are focusing your mind on pleasurable sensations. Follow for more . . . » »
