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		<title>By: Ileana Latina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ileana Latina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 13:52:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for the blog post. I really enjoyed reading it.</description>
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		<title>By: Gerry Veegor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gerry Veegor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2010 04:21:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Carla Tara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carla Tara</dc:creator>
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		<description>Hi Carroll,

Thank you for reading.  I have never heard of Minichill.  I usually do not advise people to take supplements or energy drinks, but instead to pay better attention to eating fresh, nutritious food - I myself eat lots of vegetables, and keep portions of meat small, and with very little fat.  If you combine this with just a moderate amount of exercise, you will find yourself improving in health.  

If you are having trouble relaxing, instead of trying a solution of science, like a special techno drink, why not take a few minutes to sit in a quiet place?  Close your eyes and take several deep breaths.  When you slow down your breathing and pay attention to it, your body will automatically relax.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Carroll,</p>
<p>Thank you for reading.  I have never heard of Minichill.  I usually do not advise people to take supplements or energy drinks, but instead to pay better attention to eating fresh, nutritious food &#8211; I myself eat lots of vegetables, and keep portions of meat small, and with very little fat.  If you combine this with just a moderate amount of exercise, you will find yourself improving in health.  </p>
<p>If you are having trouble relaxing, instead of trying a solution of science, like a special techno drink, why not take a few minutes to sit in a quiet place?  Close your eyes and take several deep breaths.  When you slow down your breathing and pay attention to it, your body will automatically relax.</p>
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		<title>By: Carroll B. Merriman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carroll B. Merriman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 06:04:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>superb read! The art of relaxing is very important to the soul and body. You must rest, it&#039;s natural. There&#039;s this relaxation drink, based on scientific studies and created by a scientist: it&#039;s called Minichill. it&#039;s based on clinical studies. It&#039;s made from scientifically proven relaxing ingredients like Relarian. It is backed by a Ph.D who has many publishing, Dr. Benjamin Weeks. You should really check it out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>superb read! The art of relaxing is very important to the soul and body. You must rest, it&#8217;s natural. There&#8217;s this relaxation drink, based on scientific studies and created by a scientist: it&#8217;s called Minichill. it&#8217;s based on clinical studies. It&#8217;s made from scientifically proven relaxing ingredients like Relarian. It is backed by a Ph.D who has many publishing, Dr. Benjamin Weeks. You should really check it out.</p>
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		<title>By: frazzled new mom</title>
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		<dc:creator>frazzled new mom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jan 2010 21:32:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much. This was really helpful.I&#039;m about to be a first time mom do you have any more advice?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much. This was really helpful.I&#8217;m about to be a first time mom do you have any more advice?</p>
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		<title>By: Carla Tara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carla Tara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jan 2010 16:20:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Dermot,

I am so glad you have found the article useful. It is a common problem for couples in our day. They are so busy with their work and their children, it is very easy to let the intimate connection be left behind. But it is so important to give it attention too - the strength of your relationship is the foundation that supports the family, the children, your work.  Without it, the stress of daily life can erode your passion for each other.

Blessings,
Carla</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Dermot,</p>
<p>I am so glad you have found the article useful. It is a common problem for couples in our day. They are so busy with their work and their children, it is very easy to let the intimate connection be left behind. But it is so important to give it attention too &#8211; the strength of your relationship is the foundation that supports the family, the children, your work.  Without it, the stress of daily life can erode your passion for each other.</p>
<p>Blessings,<br />
Carla</p>
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		<title>By: Dermot</title>
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		<description>Thank you for contribute this useful article. Hope that you will continue doing good article like this. I will be one of your frequent reader.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for contribute this useful article. Hope that you will continue doing good article like this. I will be one of your frequent reader.</p>
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		<title>By: Webster</title>
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		<dc:creator>Webster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 05:06:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really like your writing style, its not generic and extremly long and tedious like a lot of blog posts I read, you get to the point and I really enjoy reading your articles! Oh, and merry Christmas!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really like your writing style, its not generic and extremly long and tedious like a lot of blog posts I read, you get to the point and I really enjoy reading your articles! Oh, and merry Christmas!</p>
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		<title>By: CarlaTara</title>
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		<dc:creator>CarlaTara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 14:14:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kenny,

Men and women both need sex as part of a healthy sexual life. But there&#039;s nothing healthy about any kind of forced sex, or sex from guilt.  A healthy, and passionate (!), sex life comes from partners lovingly and happily sharing intimacy and intercourse.  

As parents, the reality of your time is that you must share it between child-rearing and your intimate relationship.  And sometimes, one or both of you is going to be too tired to &#039;perform.&#039;  Again, reality.  And no, that is not always the woman.  I have helped many clients in similar situations where a wife has complained that her husband is always &#039;too tired.&#039;  

The goal to keep in mind is the strength of the intimate connection between the two of you.  Taking time when you can to plan alone moments where you can release the full passion of your love and attraction, but when you can&#039;t, boosting that with attention and caring and physical closeness - like falling asleep in each other&#039;s arms.

Blessings,
Carla</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kenny,</p>
<p>Men and women both need sex as part of a healthy sexual life. But there&#8217;s nothing healthy about any kind of forced sex, or sex from guilt.  A healthy, and passionate (!), sex life comes from partners lovingly and happily sharing intimacy and intercourse.  </p>
<p>As parents, the reality of your time is that you must share it between child-rearing and your intimate relationship.  And sometimes, one or both of you is going to be too tired to &#8216;perform.&#8217;  Again, reality.  And no, that is not always the woman.  I have helped many clients in similar situations where a wife has complained that her husband is always &#8216;too tired.&#8217;  </p>
<p>The goal to keep in mind is the strength of the intimate connection between the two of you.  Taking time when you can to plan alone moments where you can release the full passion of your love and attraction, but when you can&#8217;t, boosting that with attention and caring and physical closeness &#8211; like falling asleep in each other&#8217;s arms.</p>
<p>Blessings,<br />
Carla</p>
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