Why Men Don’t Care How Women Feel
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A problem I hear very often from women in couples who feel they are not listened to or misunderstood or ignored is that their man doesn’t care how they feel, or doesn’t bother to listen to their feelings. But what women think they see in men’s behavior is not always a reflection of a man’s true thought or action. In spite of some women’s complaints that men don’t like feelings, my experience in working with thousands of men and women shows that what most men want Read more
Woman’s Primary Sexual Organ, the Yoni
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The yoni seems to still hold some mystery both for men and for women. Often women come to me to help them understand their sexual organ so they can ask their men for what turns them on.
The yoni is a network of connected parts of a woman’s body: the external part which includes the vulva with the inner and outer lips (also called labia) and the clitoris, and the internal part of the vagina which holds several powerful orgasmic spots such as the G spot, the A spot and the X spot.
Strangely enough, even in this age of overflow of information, some women do not know that the clitoris, which can be thought of as a small lingam, can not ejaculate or urinate. These women were stunned to find out that the clitoris’ only function is to give them pleasure. Read more
Tantra Basics: Kissing Guidelines
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Here are the basic steps of a Tantric Kiss:
First, relax all your facial muscles. A tense face makes tense lips – you want your lips and mouth to be open and welcoming. So, close your eyes for a moment, breathe deeply into your belly, and let go.
Now, kiss your partner’s upper lip (Yang). Use both your lips to embrace their upper lip. Let your lips be open and full. Suck gently.
Now, kiss your partner’s lower lip (Yin). Fully enjoy all the sensations. Explore the rich softness of your lover’s lip.
Now, kiss your partner’s lips together. The full embrace. Feel how their excitement is building. Do their lips quiver? Are they parted to invite you in?
A kiss is like the first movement of a lovemaking symphony. Read more
Tantra Basics: Touching Guidelines
by CarlaTara · 4 Comments
A simple touch can express genuine affection.
A variety of touches can express passion, devotion, and love.
The giver and the receiver both have their roles to play in this dance of love.
When they take turns giving and receiving, they each get a chance to lead the dance. Read more
The Five Types of Yoni – Part One: The Violet
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There are 5 types of yonis that can be recognized and a myriad of other little differences that actually make each yoni completely unique. Each type has certain characteristics that are helpful to recognize.
I gave these different types of yonis a name of a flower bringing to mind how each yoni opens up to loving touch like a flower opens to the sun. Today I will discuss the first type, which I call The Violet. I will talk about the other four major types in my next posts. Read more
