The G-Spot In Her Ears

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“For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below too soon is wasting his time.” -Isabel Allende

A G-spot in her ears? Does that sound strange? Bizarre? Impossible? You might have never heard of it, but it is not so strange after you take a moment to think how important words are to a woman.

Do you remember how much appreciation you expressed to your lover at the beginning of your relationship? Read more

FREE Preview of My New Workshop!

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I’m so excited to share the news about my new workshop for Baby Boomers called Booming Relationships.

Last fall I asked you, my readers and visitors, for feedback on what is missing in your lives, what you most want to improve, how I could help you the most. And you responded!

The end result is Booming Relationships, a weekend workshop dedicated to guiding Baby Boomers to rekindle passion, joy, love and excitement for life and each other.

If you are a baby boomer couple, I invite you to join me for a FREE 2 hour taster workshop!

Thursday October 15th 2009
7-9pm
22 East 30th Street, New York, NY 10016

To register, e-mail both your names & any questions you have, to
carla@carlatara.com with ‘Booming Relationships Taster – Sign me up!’ in the subject line
and we’ll respond promptly.

How to Keep Your Sex Life Exciting When You Have Kids

by CarlaTara · 16 Comments 

Kids bring lots of joy to a couple, but they also bring enormous work and lots of responsibilities. Parents have to structure their time around their children’s needs – feeding them, keeping them clean, teaching social skills, making sure they play with friends – just to mention a few of your endless parental duties.

You both love your kids, but somehow, with your focus on taking care of them, romance takes a back seat. Before the children, you had more time for each other. You could go out to dinner, see mutual friends, go to interesting movies and discuss them; you were motivated to be sensuous and creative, and could schedule time to make love more often. With your priority shifting to the children, this takes a toll on your intimacy together. As a couple, you can feel disconnected.

The ancient science of Conscious Love, Tantra, gives wonderful advice to parents. It is simple advice, but it requires your commitment to maintaining high passion in your relationship while you are being good parents. Read more