Achieving Multiple Orgasms with Tantra
by CarlaTara · Leave a Comment
Knowledge of Tantra seems to be reaching more people than ever. More men and women then even just a month ago are expressing a new interest in Tantra because they have heard from a friend, or read in a magazine or blog, that with the help of Tantra you can live up to your full potential as a lover. If you are one of them, you understand that it is smart to use the greatest energy we have available – your sexual energy – to create more pleasure, more love, more health, more abundance and unearth an even a greater sense of humor. Haven’t you noticed that when you are happy and fulfilled, you are more inclined to smile and to laugh at jokes (even when they aren’t that good)?
This is definitely good news, and what makes me feel even better is that women are finally freeing themselves of the negative myths about Tantra that have circulated over the years from unenlightened sources. One of these deleterious myths is that Tantra is equivalent to porn, and that men want you to get involved in it because they want a porn experience with you. Nothing can be further from the truth!
I have already written several articles on the multiple benefits of Tantra that you can find on my website. What I want to concentrate on here is the importance of women discovering that they can have multiple orgasms before they decide or allow to squeeze out their fluids. Read more
The G-Spot In Her Ears
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“For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below too soon is wasting his time.” -Isabel Allende
A G-spot in her ears? Does that sound strange? Bizarre? Impossible? You might have never heard of it, but it is not so strange after you take a moment to think how important words are to a woman.
Do you remember how much appreciation you expressed to your lover at the beginning of your relationship? Read more
The Tantric Big ‘O’ – Tantric Orgasm for Men
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As an intimacy expert I receive many requests from men asking me why it is important for them to control their sexual energy so that they do not ejaculate too soon. Following up on my article on Male Multiple Body Orgasms, I am happy to remind you that orgasm and ejaculation are two different events.
There are powerful Tantric techniques that will help you have several mind-blowing orgasms without ejaculating – they are called multiple body orgasms. Every time you control your instinct to ejaculate, your will move toward a higher, more powerful orgasm. You can have as many orgasms as you want during the time you have set aside for this most pleasurable and enlightening experience with your lover.
A good time to decide to ejaculate is when you know your lover is fully satisfied. Do not worry: she will give you unmistakable signs. Then you can decide to have the last body orgasm with a conscious ejaculation.
This kind of tantric orgasm -I call it the Tantric Big O – will definitely be your highest and your ejaculation will be stronger and longer.
The Tantric Dance – From Separation to Union Through Orgasms
by CarlaTara · 3 Comments
To understand why orgasm brings us bliss, health, and deeper connection, we need to remind ourselves that as humans we live in a world of duality, where the masculine and the feminine are two complementary poles. On a spiritual level we are always ONE and we are longing for oneness. We feel this oneness intensely after a great Tantric orgasm brings us into the experience of bliss in oneness. It fulfills the urge to reconnect.
In this state, our bodies are relaxed, full of potential energy, producing an environment in our bodies where health and vitality explode in each cell. We feel fully satisfied and joyous. Read more
Fun & Facts on Orgasms
I had to share this video with you – it’s got some surprising new facts about orgasm I bet you have never heard before. Mary Roach is the author of Bonk, a wander through comtemporary sex research, full of fascinating tidbits & anecdotes about human sexuality. Here is an engaging, funny talk she gave at TED about what she found out about orgasms while researching the book.
So what did you think? What was the most surprising thing you learned about orgasms in the video? I’d LOVE to hear what you think – so leave a comment!
Ciao,
Carla
