Woman’s Primary Sexual Organ, the Yoni
by CarlaTara · Leave a Comment
The yoni seems to still hold some mystery both for men and for women. Often women come to me to help them understand their sexual organ so they can ask their men for what turns them on.
The yoni is a network of connected parts of a woman’s body: the external part which includes the vulva with the inner and outer lips (also called labia) and the clitoris, and the internal part of the vagina which holds several powerful orgasmic spots such as the G spot, the A spot and the X spot.
Strangely enough, even in this age of overflow of information, some women do not know that the clitoris, which can be thought of as a small lingam, can not ejaculate or urinate. These women were stunned to find out that the clitoris’ only function is to give them pleasure. Read more
Thanksgiving – What are you giving thanks for?
by CarlaTara · Leave a Comment
This thanksgiving holiday, I’m inviting you to give thanks for your ability to get out of your head into your body!
Getting out of one’s head is essential to reach really satisfactory sex and deeper connection. As you know, the thoughts you have, even if they are positive, cannot be sustained for long. Advertising agencies and the creators of commercials know that the attention span of most people is about 16 to 30 seconds. That’s not nearly enough time to get you really turned-on when you are focusing your mind on pleasurable sensations. Read more
What Do Women Want From Men?
by CarlaTara · 3 Comments
Yesterday I was invited to give a Tantra workshop as part of a bachelorette celebration evening. It was incredibly fun, uplifting and celebratory.
I was stunned to see how hungry for real knowledge these women were. Read more
The Art of Orally Pleasing a Woman
by CarlaTara · 10 Comments
I recently received a phone call from a young man who had come to see me about a month ago to learn how to pleasure women. He was frustrated trying to give his girlfriend an orgasm this way with no success, and he thought that maybe she just did not like oral loving.
“How can it be possible?” he asked me in disbelief during the session.
There could be several reasons. Read more
The Tantric Dance – From Separation to Union Through Orgasms
by CarlaTara · 3 Comments
To understand why orgasm brings us bliss, health, and deeper connection, we need to remind ourselves that as humans we live in a world of duality, where the masculine and the feminine are two complementary poles. On a spiritual level we are always ONE and we are longing for oneness. We feel this oneness intensely after a great Tantric orgasm brings us into the experience of bliss in oneness. It fulfills the urge to reconnect.
In this state, our bodies are relaxed, full of potential energy, producing an environment in our bodies where health and vitality explode in each cell. We feel fully satisfied and joyous. Read more
