Tantra Basics: Kissing Guidelines
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Here are the basic steps of a Tantric Kiss:
First, relax all your facial muscles. A tense face makes tense lips – you want your lips and mouth to be open and welcoming. So, close your eyes for a moment, breathe deeply into your belly, and let go.
Now, kiss your partner’s upper lip (Yang). Use both your lips to embrace their upper lip. Let your lips be open and full. Suck gently.
Now, kiss your partner’s lower lip (Yin). Fully enjoy all the sensations. Explore the rich softness of your lover’s lip.
Now, kiss your partner’s lips together. The full embrace. Feel how their excitement is building. Do their lips quiver? Are they parted to invite you in?
A kiss is like the first movement of a lovemaking symphony. Read more
Dispelling Myths About Tantra – The Orgies
Some people have approached me lately asking if Tantra encourages orgies.
They see great sculptures on Tantric temples depicting several people making love to each other, which I admit looks like an orgy. However it’s far from being an orgy, and is really a higher level of expression of sexual/spiritual love. I want to shed light on the issue to encourage people who might avoid Tantra, thinking that it is about orgies, to actually take a closer look at Tantra. Read more
Learn the Tantric Hug
Here is a short Tantric practice that you can use at the end of the day to move easily out of the hectic mode of everyday life into deep connection with your loved one.
Sit in front of each other on a carpet or a softer surface like a bed. One of you – usually the man – sits in a cross legged position. Invite the other – usually the woman – to sit facing you, on top of your crossed legs, with her legs curled around your back. Read more
Break Free from Old Beliefs into Love and Abundance
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If you ever feel that in spite of your best intentions and even great effort, you still seem unable to create and/or maintain the loving relationship you desire, then the following approach might help you.
Take a moment to reflect on your parents and your upbringing as a child. Make a list of what your mother and father believed about sex and love. Read more
