Effortless Orgasms Are Possible!
I recently started working with a great looking woman who first came in my door so stressed that she could not sit still without constantly re-arranging her body. That first day, her eyes were speedily moving around in hypervigilance. She could not finish one sentence in the rush to get to the next.
What she said came from a rehearsed circular thinking in her head. She did not allow herself time to feel. She told me she hated herself and especially her body. She grew up with a self-righteous alcoholic father and a Catholic mother who did NOT allow herself or her children to feel feelings, especially those of pleasure.
She complained that she had a dark secret: she was 49 years old and she had never had an orgasm! All her friends were telling her of their great lovemaking, ending in earthshaking orgasms. . . Whether they were telling her the truth or not, she believed them and guessed there was something wrong with her.
Talking to Jane did not seem the best approach, because her rigid belief that there was something wrong with her would just filter out my words. I had to try something more direct. Read more
Break Free from Old Beliefs into Love and Abundance
by CarlaTara · Leave a Comment
If you ever feel that in spite of your best intentions and even great effort, you still seem unable to create and/or maintain the loving relationship you desire, then the following approach might help you.
Take a moment to reflect on your parents and your upbringing as a child. Make a list of what your mother and father believed about sex and love. Read more
Create Confidence with Tantra
How would you like to feel confident as a lover?
No, I don’t mean with the little blue pill. I mean as a full person including your mind and spirit, as well as your sex organs. Read more
A Letter I Received
by CarlaTara · 3 Comments
I was delighted to receive this testimonial recently, and I wanted to share it with you because it touched my heart and I know it will inspire you to take another step on your journey into Intimacy and Love.
Carla, your book “Lessons from a Tantric Tango Dancer: A Journey into Intimacy, Relationships and Love” inspired me to breathe more fully, discover more of who I am and have the courage to experience more fulfillment and joy in my life. Read more
Banish Your Doubt in 2009
by CarlaTara · Leave a Comment
I have been meditating for a while on my vision for 2009. Today, it crystallized for me and I wrote it down. Yet, even with a clear vision in front of me, it was a challenge for my mind to stay focused on what is possible without listening to constant interference from my doubting mind reminding me to be ‘realistic’.
You have probably experienced it – the doubt and second-guessing we inflict on ourselves any time our creativity brings forth something new and unfamiliar. Read more
