The Tantric Dance – From Separation to Union Through Orgasms
by CarlaTara · 3 Comments
To understand why orgasm brings us bliss, health, and deeper connection, we need to remind ourselves that as humans we live in a world of duality, where the masculine and the feminine are two complementary poles. On a spiritual level we are always ONE and we are longing for oneness. We feel this oneness intensely after a great Tantric orgasm brings us into the experience of bliss in oneness. It fulfills the urge to reconnect.
In this state, our bodies are relaxed, full of potential energy, producing an environment in our bodies where health and vitality explode in each cell. We feel fully satisfied and joyous. Read more
An Unusual Valentine’s Day Celebration
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I received a phone call from a dear friend, Marylyn, wishing me a great Valentine’s day and telling me she did not have a lover bringing her chocolate and flowers, but she had a great time. Her voice was consistent with the news. She sounded turned on and happy. “She definitely enjoys being by herself”, I thought.
As though she had heard my thought, she said, “I do enjoy spending time with myself; I usually read a book, dance by myself, or play my guitar. But today I’ve decided to do something to have others feel enjoyment about being alive.” Read more
Making Sparks Fly with a Kiss
by CarlaTara · 2 Comments
Last night I had the most amazing dream that took me back to my teenage years. I re-experienced my first kiss – it was mind-blowing. The first kiss that gave me the sense of such deep connection with my boyfriend that I did not know where my body ended and his began. We were in a car on a moonlit night, listening to a most romantic song sung by an Italian singer with a voice so deep and sensual that it felt as if it was coming from her sex center. The song, “Avvinta Come L’Edera,,” was describing the winding together of two bodies like ivy clings to a tree trunk. Read more
Carla Talks About Tantra and Rejuvenation
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A follow up to last week’s post on the anti-aging potential of Tantra. An interview I originally gave in 2008 – it’s still relevant and timely today. Enjoy! Read more
Tantra Helps Maintain Youthfulness
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You might know individuals in their forties, fifties, sixties and even older who think, act, and look much younger than their chronological age. Their youthful attitude permeates their entire life. They keep their love relationships fresh, exciting, sensuous and intimate. Couples’ feelings for each other deepen and sexual attraction remains as strong as it was when they first fell in love.
These people live a Tantric life whether or not they have studied the Tantric secrets. Read more



