Breathing Techniques for Better Lovemaking – Part 2
In my last post, I started a discussion about using breathing techniques during lovemaking. This is unusual for many people, and they may be afraid to try something that seems so different. I encourage you to give these techniques a try – they are incredibly effective a t increasing pleasure for both men and women, and creating true deep connection in the lovemaking act.
Today let’s move to the second stage of the Tantric breath. Read more
Female Ejaculation
Does a woman ejaculate? The answer is a definite yes. With proper stimulation of the G-spot or “Goddess-spot”, women can ejaculate a fluid from ducts located around the urethra. The G-spot is located in the front wall of the vagina under the pubic bone. This is a spongy area two inches or more inside the yoni (vagina) — depending on the size of the yoni and the location of the clitoris. It is actually the “South Pole” of the clitoris. Read more
Tantra and Sexual Dysfunctions
There is a certain embarrassment or even shame that is connected with sexual dysfunction. No one would be ashamed to have, for example, a liver or heart dysfunction. One would be sad but not embarrassed and one would immediately ask a professional for help.
The most common sexual dysfunctions that men experience are: loss of desire, erectile dysfunctions, premature ejaculation and impotence. Some women experience: inhibited sexual desire, lack of orgasm, insufficient lubrification and painful intercourse. According to the Journal of the American Medical Association, in 2005 more than 105 million Americans reported struggling with chronic sexual dysfunctions and many of them were not aware that there is help available. Diabetes can be one of the causes of sexual dysfunctions. Also some prescription medications for depression can have a negative effect on sexual desire.
There are many causes: some of them are related to hormone production, to blocks to the flow of energy, to shallow anxious breathing and unhealthy diet, just to mention a few. Read more
Tantra Basics: Kissing Guidelines
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Here are the basic steps of a Tantric Kiss:
First, relax all your facial muscles. A tense face makes tense lips – you want your lips and mouth to be open and welcoming. So, close your eyes for a moment, breathe deeply into your belly, and let go.
Now, kiss your partner’s upper lip (Yang). Use both your lips to embrace their upper lip. Let your lips be open and full. Suck gently.
Now, kiss your partner’s lower lip (Yin). Fully enjoy all the sensations. Explore the rich softness of your lover’s lip.
Now, kiss your partner’s lips together. The full embrace. Feel how their excitement is building. Do their lips quiver? Are they parted to invite you in?
A kiss is like the first movement of a lovemaking symphony. Read more
Tantra Basics: Touching Guidelines
by CarlaTara · 4 Comments
A simple touch can express genuine affection.
A variety of touches can express passion, devotion, and love.
The giver and the receiver both have their roles to play in this dance of love.
When they take turns giving and receiving, they each get a chance to lead the dance. Read more
