The Art of Orally Pleasing a Woman
by CarlaTara · 10 Comments
I recently received a phone call from a young man who had come to see me about a month ago to learn how to pleasure women. He was frustrated trying to give his girlfriend an orgasm this way with no success, and he thought that maybe she just did not like oral loving.
“How can it be possible?” he asked me in disbelief during the session.
There could be several reasons. Read more
The Tantric Dance – From Separation to Union Through Orgasms
by CarlaTara · 3 Comments
To understand why orgasm brings us bliss, health, and deeper connection, we need to remind ourselves that as humans we live in a world of duality, where the masculine and the feminine are two complementary poles. On a spiritual level we are always ONE and we are longing for oneness. We feel this oneness intensely after a great Tantric orgasm brings us into the experience of bliss in oneness. It fulfills the urge to reconnect.
In this state, our bodies are relaxed, full of potential energy, producing an environment in our bodies where health and vitality explode in each cell. We feel fully satisfied and joyous. Read more
The Difference Between Regular Sex and Tantra
The difference between regular sex and Tantra is awareness. One of the fundamental parts of the ecstasy you feel during sacred sex comes from the spiritual connection between you and your love partner. It is difficult to stay aware of your spiritual connection when your sex center gets very turned on unless you have trained how to do so.
Staying aware when you are very turned on physically is challenging, but incredibly rewarding. When you learn to stay aware of all that you are during the moments of highest excitement , you are in a Tantic state, a state of union between the male and female energy, between the body, the mind and the spirit, and the emotions flow freely and unencumbered like a river between the different levels.
It is a state of pleasure and deep enjoyment, a celebration of being fully alive in the NOW. When you are in this state, time stays still, and your experience of bliss is stretched and intense. The now is eternal. That is why the experience that Tantric love brings is always fresh and new.
Dispelling Myths About Tantra – The Orgies
Some people have approached me lately asking if Tantra encourages orgies.
They see great sculptures on Tantric temples depicting several people making love to each other, which I admit looks like an orgy. However it’s far from being an orgy, and is really a higher level of expression of sexual/spiritual love. I want to shed light on the issue to encourage people who might avoid Tantra, thinking that it is about orgies, to actually take a closer look at Tantra. Read more
What is a Cervix Orgasm?
by CarlaTara · Leave a Comment
Question:
I have just discovered my g-spot, and loved the orgasms I have when it is well stimulated.
I was feeling so great thinking that now I know everything about my sexuality.
However, my friend ruined it for me the other day by saying that the cervix orgasm is better. I don’t even know you can have a cervical orgasm. Is it true? Read more
